When Death Does You Part

If you have picked up this book, you are likely grappling with the impending or previous death of your beloved spouse. You are likely struggling to process the reality that your life is about to change, or has changed, forever. You may be frantically rehearsing Scripture verses about how God works all things together for good and how we are supposed to give thanks in everything because it is God's will, while feeling guilty that these promises aren't doing much to ease your trepidation, sorrow, and loneliness.

If this describes your situation, take heart. You are not alone. We have been where you are now. God has shepherded us through that dark valley of the shadow of death and brought us out the other side. He will do the same for you.

Keep rehearsing His promises in Scripture. Keep putting one foot in front of the other each day, obeying His precepts and serving Him as best you can. Keep surrounding yourself with Christian brothers and sisters—they will help you bear your burden. And keep reading this book. God might just use the story of our widowhood journey to strengthen you as you navigate your own.

96 pages.

"When your spouse takes her final breath, your world pivots… you're stepping into the unknown. What you need are trusted friends who have been there. Friends who know exactly what to do. Richard and Deb are these friends and this book proves it. It's a long conversation with folks who know exactly what you're thinking. And feeling. And wondering. They know the paralyzing grief and the hope that comes from the Savior. Their words are sound. And true."
—Robert Wolgemuth, Best-selling author

"This book has the power of story and truth woven together, with practical and experiential applications. When Death Does You Part reminds us that life is short; it is a gift from God. And when grief comes, He may have other gifts in store."
—Brian Borgman, Pastor of Grace Community Church, Minden, Nevada; Author of Feelings and Faith and Don't Waste Your Breath: Ecclesiastes and the Joy of a Fleeting Life

"Richard and Debra are all too familiar with the deep grief and loneliness that accompany the death of a spouse. They are also intimately acquainted with the comfort God extends. Through their stories, you'll learn how to lean on Christ, navigate the practical aspects of widowhood, and open your heart to the possibility of remarriage."
—Jim Daly, President, Focus on the Family

"This book provides an emotional but compelling glimpse into the lives of two believers who have walked the shadowy valleys of death in bereavement but who have also traversed the prized mountaintops of joy in remarriage."
—Dr. Elias Diaz, Pastor-Teacher, Grace Church of the Black Hills

"A truly invaluable discovery, addressing a topic rarely tackled with such depth. This heartwarming work offers exceptional insight, encouragement, and deeply practical, godly wisdom. It masterfully navigates the grief of widowhood while preparing readers for remarriage, should God will it. Rooted in God's absolute sovereignty, this essential read comes with my warmest recommendation."
Rob Ventura, Pastor, Grace Community Baptist Church, North Providence, Rhode Island; author of Expository Outlines and Observations on Romans and Equipped to Evangelize; co-author of A Portrait of Paul and Spiritual Warfare