{"title":"Books to Help Deal Biblically with Abuse","description":"\u003cdiv style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003eWhat can we do in the face of the terrible evil of abuse? Whether the victim is a spouse, a child, a church member, or anyone else, there are devastating consequences. Many pastors feel inequipped to respond in a biblical way to abuse. And we certainly need more people who are able to care effectively and bring the hope of the gospel to victims.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003eThe books in collection will help:\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003evictims to process their suffering and find healing,\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003epastors to respond biblically to abuse,\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003echildren to protect their bodies,\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cdiv style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003ecounselors to help abuse victims.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 style=\"text-align: center;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reformers.com.au\/collections\/biblical-counselling-resources\"\u003eAll Biblical Counselling Books\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"9780307731180-emotionally-destructive-marriage-the-how-to-find-your-voice-and-reclaim-your-hope-vernick-leslie","title":"Emotionally Destructive Marriage, The: How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope","description":"\u003c!-- FXB151031 --\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou can't put it into words, but something is happening to you. Your stomach churns, your heart aches and the tension in your marriage is making you feel weary and a little crazy. The constant criticism, disrespect, cruelty, deceit and gross indifference are eroding your confidence and breaking your spirit. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e For any woman caught in an emotionally destructive marriage, Leslie Vernick offers a personalised path forward. Based on decades of counselling experience, her intensely practical, biblical advice will show you how to establish boundaries and break free from emotional abuse. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \"This book is a lifeline for women who long to live a Christ-honoring life but are caught in the downward spiral of a destructive relationship. Leslie draws from a deep well of biblical insight, practical experience, and courageous advocacy to give individuals and the church the tools necessary to set captives free - one woman at a time.\"? \u003cbr\u003e - Joe Henseler, Senior Pastor, Faith Evangelical Free Church, Allentown, Pennsylvania\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"WaterBrook","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10488760467499,"sku":"9780307731180","price":28.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9780307731180-Vernick-The-emotionally-destructive-marriage.jpg?v=1600061332"},{"product_id":"9780802460691-undefiled-redemption-from-sexual-sin-restoration-for-broken-relationships-schaumburg-harry","title":"Undefiled: Redemption from Sexual Sin, Restoration for Broken Relationships","description":"\u003c!-- FXB131030 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eAmid the chaos of cybersex, impersonal sex, adultery, homosexuality and sexual dissatisfaction in marriage, Undefiled calls readers towards a new kind of spiritual and sexual revolution. Sexual impurity creates a vicious circle, one that springs from misconceptions about Christ and further taints our understanding of Him. However, another circle is available to men and women trapped in sexual sin, a circle of sexual redemption. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nWhen practised as God intends, spirituality and sexuality both draw us closer to Christ. Spiritual maturity and sexual maturity go hand-in-hand, and together they hold out the promise of redemption and restoration needed by everyone who has been damaged by sexual sin. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nThere is hope. Real change is possible; true intimacy is available. To the person who has failed time and time again sexually, God's message is simple: You too can be undefiled.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Moody Publishers","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10489003278379,"sku":"9780802460691","price":26.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9780802460691-Schaumburg-Undefiled-Redemption-from-sexual-sin-broken-relationships.jpg?v=1600062567"},{"product_id":"9781433556142-making-all-things-new-restoring-joy-to-the-sexually-broken-powlison-david","title":"Making All Things New: Restoring Joy to the Sexually Broken","description":"\u003c!-- FXB171021 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eSexuality was a part of God's good creation from the beginning. But with sin came a world filled with sexual brokenness. Thankfully, God is always in the business of restoration. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nThis book offers hope for both the sexually immoral and the sexually victimised - pointing us all to the grace of Jesus Christ, who mercifully intervenes each moment in our lifelong journey toward renewal. David Powlison explores the key to deep transformation - not just fresh resolve, not just flimsy forgiveness, not just simple formulas, but true, lasting mercy from God, who is making all things new. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\n\"Sexual sin can seem like a trap from which one can never escape. David Powlison brings good news to those caught in sexual sin, and to those who have been sinned against. This book addresses sexual sin not with shame and moralising but with the gospel of Jesus Christ. We all need to hear the message of this book.\"? \u003cbr\u003e\n- Russell D. 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With the heart of a pastor, John Henderson helps us to see how Scripture really does make a difference in life s most difficult hurts, pains and sorrows. As John tells the story of couple facing the painful consequences of past abuse, we see him weave the words of Psalm 22 into their life story. Much more than a remarkable story, this booklet shows how we have a remarkable Savior.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"P\u0026R Publishing","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10490091438123,"sku":"9781596384170","price":10.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781596384170-Henderson-Abuse-Finding-hope-in-Christ.jpg?v=1600070107"},{"product_id":"9781845504434-my-friend-is-struggling-with-past-sexual-abuse-mcdowell-josh","title":"My Friend Is Struggling with Past Sexual Abuse","description":"\u003c!-- FXB150624 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eFourteen-year-old Ann Cassidy is struggling with her past. 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However, more than that, you will discover how to experience the comfort, encouragement and support you need from both God and your friends.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"CF4K","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10490693812267,"sku":"9781845504434","price":7.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781845504434-mcdowell-stewart-friend-struggling-past-sexual-abuse.jpg?v=1636104151"},{"product_id":"9781934885352-ngp-living-with-an-angry-spouse-help-for-victims-of-abuse-welch-edward-t","title":"NGP Living with an Angry Spouse: Help for Victims of Abuse","description":"\u003c!-- FXB140705 --\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou married someone you trusted, and now you are facing unpredictable anger or outright physical abuse. This is betrayal at its worst. Most likely you are numb, scared, confused, and paralysed. How do you take a step when you are so afraid? \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e Edward T. Welch shares how hope and change come from knowing the God who hears you and promises to deliver you. He has the power to fill you with his love a love that is patient, kind and says no to injustice. As you are guided by Gods love, you will have the courage to take the practical steps outlined in this booklet. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e Packed full of applied Biblical wisdom, these guides address highly relevant issues for anyone seeking counsel.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491270397995,"sku":"9781934885352","price":9.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781934885352-Welch-CCEF-Living-With-Angry-Spouse-Help-for-victims-of-abuse.jpg?v=1636104583"},{"product_id":"9781934885475-ngp-recovering-from-child-abuse-healing-and-hope-for-victims-powlison-david","title":"NGP Recovering from Child Abuse: Healing and Hope for Victims","description":"\u003c!-- FXB120705 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe damage you suffered may have been done in one terrible moment or over time - but the healing and the restoration will unfold at your pace, at a human pace. It unfolds as part of your story, and it unfolds over time. As a vulnerable child, instead of being protected, helped and comforted, you were physically, emotionally and\/or sexually abused. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nLearn from David Powlison, an experienced counsellor of child abuse victims, how to express your experience to God by composing your own personal liturgy. Pouring out your heart to God will begin the healing process and lead to small steps of faith and restoration. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nPacked full of applied Biblical wisdom, these guides address highly relevant issues for anyone seeking counsel.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491279376427,"sku":"9781934885475","price":9.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781934885475-Powlison-CCEF-Recovering-From-Child-Abuse-Healing-hope-for-victims.jpg?v=1636104638"},{"product_id":"9781935273783-ngp-sexual-assault-healing-steps-for-victims-powlison-david","title":"NGP Sexual Assault: Healing Steps for Victims","description":"\u003c!-- FXB140604 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eSexual assault is an invasive event of traumatic evil. You were victimised, and now you are suffering. Whenever sexual abuse occurs, love is not part of the equation. Rather, the perpetrator uses power, domination and control to injure innocent victims. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nDavid Powlison gently leads those who have been wounded sexually to a deeper relationship with God - beyond the pain - with biblical action steps. By embracing their identity in Jesus, sufferers will not only understand the emotional and spiritual battles they face as sexual assault victims, they will be equipped to effectively overcome any fear, worry, anger and shame and to offer hope to others in similar situation. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nPacked full of applied Biblical wisdom, these guides address highly relevant issues for anyone seeking counsel.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491290877995,"sku":"9781935273783","price":9.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781935273783-tripp-sexual-assault-healing-steps.jpg?v=1636104667"},{"product_id":"9781935273981-shame-interrupted-how-god-lifts-the-pain-of-worthlessness-and-rejection-welch-edward-t","title":"Shame Interrupted: How God Lifts the Pain of Worthlessness and Rejection","description":"\u003c!-- FXB140709 --\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eShame controls far too many of us. Worthless, inferior, rejected, weak, humiliated, failure... it all adds up to wishing we could get away from others and hide. Time doesn't help, neither does confession, because shame is just as often from what others do to you as it is from what you have done. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e However, the Bible is about shame from start to finish, and, if we are willing, God's beautiful words break through. Look at Jesus through the lens of shame and see how the marginalised and worthless are his favourites and become his people. God cares for the shamed - through Jesus you are covered, adopted, cleansed and healed. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e \"This is more than an important and redemptive book; it is a labor that could open the field of counseling, soul care, and pastoral work to a vital reformation that comes when one has cut open a path that has laid dormant for too long.\" \u003cbr\u003e - Dan B. Allender, PhD, Professor of Counseling Psychology, Author of The Wounded Heart: Help for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491292090411,"sku":"9781935273981","price":38.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781935273981-Welch-Shame-interrupted-How-God-lifts-the-pain.jpg?v=1636111466"},{"product_id":"9781936768998-sexual-sanity-for-men-re-creating-your-mind-in-a-crazy-culture-white-david","title":"Sexual Sanity for Men: Re-Creating Your Mind in a Crazy Culture","description":"\u003c!-- FXB130115 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten for Christian men struggling with any form of sexual brokenness, this resource helps men understand that sexual sin starts in their minds and hearts and shows them how knowing Christ breaks their chains, builds spiritual brotherhood, and helps them take practical steps to re-create their minds in a God-focused direction. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\n\"I know of no resource that is written to help men who are struggling with sexual sin that is more soundly biblical, drenched with the gospel, and practical at the street level. I am thankful that this resource now exists and will recommend it again and again. Here is a welcome for men to come out of the hiding, to embrace that there is nothing that could be revealed about them that hasn't already been covered by the blood of Jesus, and to believe that God has given them every grace that they need to fight the battle with sexual sin\"?. \u003cbr\u003e\n- Paul David Tripp, President, Paul Tripp Ministries; best-selling author\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491306508331,"sku":"9781936768998","price":38.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781936768998-White-Sexual-sanity-for-men.jpg?v=1636111369"},{"product_id":"9781938267000-sexual-sanity-for-women-healing-from-sexual-and-relational-brokenness-dykas-ellen","title":"Sexual Sanity for Women: Healing from Sexual and Relational Brokenness","description":"\u003c!-- FXB130129 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eSexual Sanity for Women guides participants to understand God's good design for sexuality, the underlying reasons they struggle with sexual brokenness, and how the grace and truth of Jesus Christ can be applied to their struggles. Change begins as deeper heart issues are uncovered, and women learn that they are well-loved daughters of God who will find healing and wholeness as they live out God's Word in their relationships.  \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nThis workbook of twenty lessons is ideal for a one-on-one mentoring, university students and women's groups.  \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\n\"In our postfeminist, hypersexualised culture, women are confused about what the Bible teaches about sexuality. Sexual Sanity for Women is an eminently practical small group resource that will minister to women who are addicted to pornography, struggle with same-sex attraction, feel guilty from a lifestyle of promiscuity, have been sexually abused, or just need to understand what Christianity has to say about sexuality... A must-have resource for every women's ministry\".  \u003cbr\u003e\n- Melanie M. 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Christ calls us to help the helpless, but what can we do to prevent violence and offer hope and help to women who have been abused? \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nBased on her many years of experience working with victims as a psychologist, Diane Langberg offers a window into what it looks like to walk with someone who has experienced trauma and abuse. Leaning heavily into Christ as the one who fully understands and redeems suffering, she will open your eyes to see both the horror of such an experience and the splendour of the gospel as it creates beauty from ashes. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nPacked full of applied Biblical wisdom, these guides address highly relevant issues for anyone seeking counsel.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491320631339,"sku":"9781939946171","price":10.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781939946171-Langberg-Bringing-christ-to-abused-women.jpg?v=1636104386"},{"product_id":"9781939946195-ngp-protecting-children-from-abuse-in-the-church-steps-to-prevent-and-respond-tchividjian-basyle","title":"NGP Protecting Children from Abuse in the Church: Steps to Prevent and Respond","description":"\u003c!-- FXB131030 --\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow do we protect the children in our Christian community from sexual offenders? We are becoming more and more aware of the prevalence of child abuse, both in society at large and in the church. We want to protect children in our community from abuse, but we don't always know the best ways to go about that.  \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nFrom his years of experience as a child abuse prosecutor, Boz Tchividjian unpacks the dynamics of a church environment that allows perpetrators to thrive and offers constructive help for educating and training your church to recognise and deal with potential abuse. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nUsing biblical principles and the example of Jesus, he shows you how to cultivate an attitude and environment in your church that provides safety and protection for these young ones. \u003cbr\u003e\n \u003cbr\u003e\nPacked full of applied Biblical wisdom, these guides address highly relevant issues for anyone seeking counsel.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491322925099,"sku":"9781939946195","price":9.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781939946195-Tchividjian-NGP-Protecting-children-from-abuse-in-the-church.jpg?v=1636104631"},{"product_id":"9781942572305-god-made-all-of-me-a-book-to-help-children-protect-their-bodies-holcomb-justin-holcomb-lindsey","title":"God Made All of Me: A Book to Help Children Protect their Bodies","description":"\u003c!-- FXB151031 --\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eGod Made All of Me is a simply-told, beautifully-illustrated story to help families talk to children about their bodies. It starts from the fundamental truth that God created everything and applies that truth - the doctrine of creation - to kids and their bodies. \u003cbr\u003e \u003cbr\u003e Because the private parts of our bodies are private, the home is the ideal environment where a child should learn about his or her body and how it should be treated by others. God Made All of Me equips parents to build a first line of defence against sexual abuse in the safety of their own homes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/files\/9781942572305-god-made-all-of-me-a-book-to-help-children-protect-their-bodies-holcomb-justin-holcomb-lindsey.pdf?v=1642073475\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003eView excerpt here.\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003ePart of the\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reformers.com.au\/collections\/all\/series_god-made-me-series?sort_by=best-selling\"\u003eGod Made Me Series\u003c\/a\u003e\n\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Educating our children about their bodies is one of the most important steps in preventing child abuse. That's why God Made All of Me is a valuable resource. A simple story with colorful artwork, and theological and practical truth - all packed into one small book.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e- Deepak Reju\u003c\/strong\u003e, Pastor of Biblical Counseling and Family Ministry, Capitol Hill Baptist Church\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"New Growth Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":10491341439019,"sku":"9781942572305","price":29.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781942572305-Holcomb-God-made-all-of-me.jpg?v=1636094829"},{"product_id":"9781629953281-domestic-abuse-recognize-respond-rescue-strickland-darby","title":"Domestic Abuse: Recognize, Respond, Rescue","description":"\u003cp\u003eWhat hope is there when a loved one’s marriage is abusive?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eOne spouse seeking to control and dominate the other is a prevalent problem, and even Christian marriages are not safe from it. But how can counselors and concerned family and friends know how to approach it . . . or even\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003erecognize\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003eit?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eExperienced Christian counselor Darby Strickland demonstrates how to recognize and uncover oppression, then uses Scripture to show what is truly happening in abusive marriages. 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I also think that there is a place for us to find hope and community within the church.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eBecause of these two beliefs, I truly think, distant though it may be, that\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cem\u003ewe may even get to a place of peace within our souls and a place of forgiveness for those who hurt us so much\u003c\/em\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis is a book that has no easy answers and will offer none. This is a book that tries to get behind the tough questions of why God permits such abuses to occur in this world. Using his own story of childhood abuse, Mez McConnell tells us about a God who is just, sovereign and loving. A good father who knows the pain of rejection and abuse, who hates evil, who can bring hope even in the darkest place.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e240 pages\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI really did not enjoy this book… but I am thankful for it. And I am convinced that it is vital reading for us. Mez points to the power of a loving, suffering Lord to save and heal even from the most harrowing abuse. Whether you’ve suffered abuse or grew up safe and loved, read it. It is an invaluable resource as we serve the abused and suffering in our midst with the love of Jesus. Simultaneously, gruelling and glorious.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eSteve Timmis, CEO of the Acts 29 Network\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe beauty of the book is that Mez tells the story of his own suffering and folds it into the bigger story of the gospel of Jesus Christ. It is heartbreaking, empathetic, accessible, and pastorally wise. Moreover, it presents the reader with the sovereign, holy and merciful God of the Bible who alone can bring lasting light and hope into darkness and despair. Anyone can read this. Everyone should.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eGavin Peacock, Former professional footballer and Director of International Outreach, The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e… even if every question is not answered, you will finish this book knowing these things for sure: You are not alone, God loves you intimately, and Jesus will make all things new. The two–fold testimony of Mez’s vulnerability and Christ’s sufficiency will certainly aid in bringing healing to the broken.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eMatthew Z. Capps, Senior Pastor, Fairview Baptist Church, Apex, North Carolina\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe Creaking On The Stairs\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eis a relentlessly evangelistic book. If you struggle to imagine a good God due to past abuse, Mez wants you to know you are not alone. You are not forgotten. You are deeply loved. He can testify to that firsthand.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eMatt Smethurst, Managing Editor, The Gospel Coalition\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI finished it with the sober but thankful realisation that in its pages Mez has given us something incredibly valuable: truth and hope. He has given us truth that can be applied to even the most broken situations, and hope for that day when there will be no more weeping and no more tears. For that reason and many more, I can’t recommend this book enough.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eAileen Challies, Pastor’s Wife\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e… a painfully raw, sweetly pastoral, and deeply theological word to those who have suffered abuse. This is a book that will speak to the hearts of many, and that will also open the hearts of many to understand the ravages of abuse and the healing power of the Saviour. You don’t just read this book; you experience it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eGreg Gilbert, Senior Pastor, Third Avenue Baptist Church, Louisville, Kentucky, Author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eWhat is the Gospel?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eNever have I experienced a book that is for the abused and abuser; the victimized and the tormentor. And the power of the gospel being the answer for all. Stunningly accessible and beautifully written, this book is sure to be a healing balm to the soul of many abuse survivors and a defining book for a generation.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eBrian Croft, Pastor, Auburndale Baptist Church and Senior Fellow of the Mathena Center for Church Revitalization at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, Louisville, Kentucky\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eRaw. Real. Redemptive. The story of Mez McConnell’s childhood abuse, interestingly, neither centres on himself or his tormentors, but rather on God’s good and sovereign providence, and a suffering Saviour who gave himself for Mez, and all who trust in him. It could have been just crushing, but instead it is filled with hope.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eLigon Duncan, Chancellor and CEO, Reformed Theological Seminary\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eReading about the reality of child abuse in the life of someone you know is gut wrenching. Realising the prevalence of abuse in our world is overwhelmingly distressing. Mez’s personal account of his life is a hard read, but as the grace and mercy of God is put on display in his life, it proves also to be a hopeful read. On the bleak and dark canvas of abuse, the gospel can shine. It shines brightly on these pages as Mez wonderfully notes hope for the abused and the abuser, as well as for ministers seeking to shepherd both.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eAnthony Mathenia, Pastor, Christchurch, Radford, Virginia\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor those who have been acquainted with abuse, a new song of freedom and healing will resonate as you hear the message of Jesus’ work on the cross. Mez has carefully crafted a theologically rich, pastorally gentle, Christ–exalting tool. This is much needed in Christ’s global church. Get it, read it, teach it, and heed it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eDoug Logan, Director of the Diversity Initiative, Acts 29 \u0026amp; Co–director of Church in Hard Places\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePainfully raw and profoundly helpful, this is a book that speaks into the depths of our darkness and offers extraordinary hope for both the abused and the abusers. If you feel ashamed, hopeless and bitter – or you know someone who does – you must read this.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eMichael Reeves, President and Professor of Theology, Union School of Theology, Oxford, England\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e… the hero of the book is not Mez or some nice person or the social gospel: It’s\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003edoctrine\u003c\/em\u003e, including God’s sovereignty and Christ’s atonement. … Those who have hit bottom need not soothing words but the hard Gospel truths of sin and deliverance. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eMarvin Olasky, Editor in Chief, World Magazine\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis book is heart–wrenching but necessary. It applies the gospel in the worst of contexts and demonstrates its power to save and restore. It is written for those who are hurting and for those who long to minister to them. These pages are void of whitewash, trite answers and cliché, but full of the gospel!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003ePaul Washer, President, Heart Cry Ministry, Radford, Virginia\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMez writes with courage and compassion. The courage to tell his painful story. And compassion to point us to the place of healing. Read the book and expect to be shocked with depravity and deliverance.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eErik Raymond, Senior Pastor, Redeemer Fellowship Church, Boston, Massachusetts\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMez McConnell is bold and brash, is a powerful preacher and he leads an exciting work among the under–served peoples in the hard places of our cities and communities. He is theologically astute and one would be well advised not to underestimate his wisdom. He is also brutally honest – honest about his own past and honest about his present nightmares. That he has become the man he is today is a tribute to the grace of God at work in him. This book not only tells his story, it gives us clear strategies for identifying abuse when it happens and what steps to take to intervene. All of us will learn from the deep life lessons found here. I am profoundly grateful to know him and for his courage to speak out. To God be the glory.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eLiam Goligher, Senior Minister, Tenth Presbyterian Church, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWith vivid personal stories, well–stated research, and a storehouse of scripture, Mez takes the grievous and gut–wrenching reality of abuse and holds it up to the light of grace. While I wish this book didn’t have to exist, I’m thankful it does. It’s a powerful and redemptive resource.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eEmily Jensen, Co–Founder of Risen Motherhood, Co–Author of ‘Risen Motherhood: Gospel Hope for Everyday Moments’\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWith honesty and grace, Mez McConnell weaves together the scope of his abuse and recovery with the scope of Jesus’ person and work. In short, accessible chapters he outlines the hope of the Gospel available to both survivors and abusers. Highly recommended.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eEric Schumacher, Shepherd, Songwriter, Storyteller at emschumacher.com, Co–author with Elyse Fitzpatrick of Worthy: Celebrating the Value of Women\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis is the most disturbing book that I have ever read, and I cannot recommend it highly enough. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eRosaria Butterfield, Author of ‘The Gospel Comes with a House Key’ and ‘The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert’\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt’s been said that we’re all ‘soaked with the sense of exile’ and long for restored Eden. The hope for the abused and the abuser alike is in Jesus Christ who is indeed making all things new (Rev. 21:5). Born of unimaginable pain, this book will surely be a gospel balm to many.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003eChris Larson, President and CEO of Ligonier Ministries, Orlando, Florida\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"col\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"description\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"about text\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e… a deeply personal, gut–wrenchingly candid account of his own struggle with bitter emotions and smouldering resentment. Writing with unvarnished honesty, he describes the conflict between righteous anger and forgiveness—and he points the way to liberty and triumph in the grace of God.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5\u003e\u003cem\u003ePhillip R. 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Ultimately, you will become equipped to provide wise and Christ-centered counsel while navigating a difficult and complex situation.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e264 pages\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/files\/9781629956947-is-it-abuse-a-biblical-guide-to-identifying-domestic-abuse-and-helping-victims-strickland-darby.pdf?v=1648022240\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eView excerpt here.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e“Is it Abuse is a stunning work. It is brave without being incendiary. It \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003eis carefully and thoroughly biblical. It is relentlessly practical. Yet Strickland also steadfastly avoids the traps of oversimplifying either the problem or the solution. Speaking from a wealth of experience, this book is for oppressed spouses, the spouses who are harming them, and those trying to intervene redemptively in abusive marriages on behalf of Christ. If you ever read a book about abuse in couples, let it be this one.”\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e—Alasdair Groves\u003c\/strong\u003e, Executive Director CCEF\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"P\u0026R Publishing","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":32370761597007,"sku":"9781629956947","price":34.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781629956947-is-it-abuse-a-biblical-guide-to-identifying-domestic-abuse-and-helping-victims.jpg?v=1636098631"},{"product_id":"9781633421523-help-my-parents-abused-me-when-i-was-a-kid-joshua-zeichik","title":"Help! 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As well as providing practical instruction on how to help the victim gain safety and deal with the abuser in a biblical way, it points to the victory possible in Jesus Christ, who was abused for his people and who has compassion on all hurting people who turn to him.\u003cbr\u003e\n64 pages.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Shepherd Press","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":32628184645711,"sku":"9781633420069","price":8.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/help-someone-i-love-has-been-abused-1000.jpg?v=1636096830"},{"product_id":"9781922449399-ive-got-a-secret-wendy-francis","title":"I've Got a Secret","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003ePeople keep secrets for all sorts of reasons. Planning a surprise trip, or a birthday party or a special gift \u003cspan\u003ecan make life fun and interesting. Sadly, not all secrets bring joy. They can be destructive and life altering. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIt’s especially important for children to understand the difference between good and bad secrets. Good \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003esecrets bring happy surprises when they are told. Bad secrets try to cover up wrong and they should never \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003ebe kept quiet. This book will start a conversation to help children know the difference.\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e36 pages.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eI’ve Got A Secret is such an important resource for parents and their children. More than ever we need to be \u003cspan\u003eactive in arming our children to navigate the life and dangers before them. In this beautiful book, Wendy writes \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003eso simply that any child will be able to understand the important lessons and put them into action. It takes a \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003evillage to raise a child, thank you Wendy for using your gifts to help parents raise their children well. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003e- Letitia Shelton, CEO of City Women\u003c\/em\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eThe tricky job of preparing children to recognise danger without diminishing their joy and innocence just got \u003cspan\u003eeasier. Wendy Francis helps parents and grandparents explain the difference between good and bad secrets with \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003ethis gem of a book that will both teach and delight readers of all ages. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003e- Dr Elisabeth Taylor, Ph.D. (Cantab)\u003c\/em\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eA note for parents.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eOne of a parent’s most important responsibilities is to teach their child the difference between what is good and what is bad. That can be made more difficult, and can be confusing for children, when something can be both good AND bad depending on the circumstances. This is the case with secrets. We’ve all known the joy of having a secret that we are holding onto until the right time to reveal it – birthday and Christmas presents, a special date, a surprise holiday or party. These are exciting secrets that make life fun and interesting.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eSadly, not all secrets are fun, or bring joy. They can be destructive and life altering. Silence is a tool used by abusers to bully children into keeping the abuse ‘their little secret’, encouraging them not to tell anyone about it, or even threatening that they will get in trouble if they tell. Far too often, these cruel tactics work.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eIt’s vitally important that we teach our children the difference between a good secret that leads to a happy surprise, and a bad secret that covers up wrong. Secrets that make a child feel uncomfortable, or worried, or sad – these should never be kept to themselves.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eAs you read this book with your child, my hope is that it will help you to start a bigger conversation. We want them to feel safe to tell us absolutely anything.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e• Encourage your child never to keep a secret from you unless it is a fun surprise that is going to be revealed at the right time.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e• Tell your child that you want to know about anything that hurts them, or makes them feel uncomfortable. If someone touches them, or looks at their private parts, that must never be a secret. They need to know that they should immediately tell you or a trusted adult.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e• If a friend tells them a secret, they should also tell you or a trusted adult, so that you can take the appropriate action.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e• Make sure your child knows that it is never their fault if someone does something bad to them, and that they will not be in trouble for telling you. You need to know. You want to know because you love them and will protect them.\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003eSometimes we assume that our children understand things when they really don’t! Secrets can be confusing for children. Knowing the difference between a good secret and a bad secret can save them from life-affecting trauma. I encourage you to not only read this book to \u003cspan\u003ethem, but to keep the conversation going. Open and ongoing communication with our children is key. - \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003eWendy Francis\u003c\/em\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Connor Court","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":39277101252687,"sku":"9781922449399","price":29.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781922449399-ive-got-a-secret-wendy-francis.jpg?v=1636097885"},{"product_id":"9781925826739-turn-think-tell-wendy-francis","title":"Turn, Think, Tell","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eOut of Stock\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e“It has never been harder for parents to protect their childrens’ innocence than it is in the digital age.  Faced with adult concepts and confronting images in public places, online or at times where parents cannot always be present, we need to arm our children with the skills they need to cope.  Wendy Francis has prepared a much-needed and age-appropriate resource to help parents educate their children to withstand the challenges of the digital age.” \u003cem\u003e- Senator Amanda Stoker\u003c\/em\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\"Once again, Wendy Francis has addressed a challenging issue with gentleness and sensitivity. 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It will be a helpful guide to anyone who suspects abuse within their church family but is unsure how to help without making things worse.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe five appendices at the end of the book offer helpful answers to difficult questions as well as additional resources.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eContents\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSection 1 – How to Understand Abuse\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eUnderstanding Your Role as Agent of God’s Love\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eUnderstanding Abuse Dynamics\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDiscerning Abuse Dynamics\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSection 2 – How to Help in the Short Term\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCaring for the Victim\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eConfronting the Abuser\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eConsidering Collateral Damage\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSection 3 – How to Help in the Long Term\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHelping the Move from Victim to Overcomer\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHelping the Move from Abuser to Servant\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLeading Your Church to Respond with Wisdom and Compassion\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAppendix A – FAQs in the Initial Stages\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAppendix B – FAQs on Separation, Divorce, and Reunification After Abuse\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAppendix C – The Authority of Scripture and Abuse Research\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAppendix D – Resources\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAppendix E – Care Advocate Role Description\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e256 pages.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/files\/9781527107229-when-home-hurts-a-guide-for-responding-wisely-to-domestic-abuse-in-your-church-jeremy-pierre-and-greg-wilson.pdf?v=1622633647\" target=\"_blank\"\u003eView excerpt here.\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e","brand":"Christian Focus","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":39400230158415,"sku":"9781527107229","price":29.99,"currency_code":"AUD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/products\/9781527107229-when-home-hurts-a-guide-for-responding-wisely-to-domestic-abuse-in-your-church-jeremy-pierre-and-greg-wilson.jpg?v=1636121490"},{"product_id":"9781936141500-sanctuary-hope-and-help-for-victims-of-domestic-abuse-sydney-millage","title":"Sanctuary: Hope and Help for Victims of Domestic Abuse","description":"\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eOppressed, hurting women are looking for comfort and relief. 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He knows, hears, and will meet you in your need.\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eSanctuary\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003eprovides practical descriptions, help, and hope for women who are suffering and those who long to help.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cem data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e“Domestic abuse may be the most misunderstood and mismanaged issue within the church today. 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Speaking into current #MeToo and #ChurchToo conversations, this book shows that the body of Christ desperately needs to understand the forms power takes, how it is abused, and how to respond to abuses of power.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eAlthough many Christians want to prevent abuse in their churches and organizations, they lack a deep and clear-eyed understanding of how power actually works. Internationally recognized psychologist Diane Langberg offers a clinical and theological framework for understanding how power operates, the effects of the abuse of power, and how power can be redeemed and restored to its proper God-given place in relationships and institutions. This book not only helps Christian leaders identify and resist abusive systems but also shows how they can use power to protect the vulnerable in their midst.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/2773\/2624\/files\/9781587434389-redeeming-power-understanding-authority-and-abuse-in-the-church-diane-langberg.pdf?v=1624234890\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"\u003eView excerpt here.\u003c\/a\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\n\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cb data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003eContents\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003ePrelude\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cb data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003ePart 1: Power Defined\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e1. The Source and Purpose of Power\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e2. Vulnerability and Power\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e3. The Role of Deception in the Abuse of Power\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e4. The Power of Culture and the Influence of Words\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cb data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003ePart 2: Power Abused\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e5. Understanding Abuse of Power\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e6. Power in Human Systems\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e\u003cspan data-mce-fragment=\"1\"\u003e7. 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